Hospital Plan
Who Will Be There?
Labor and Delivery: Imagine who you want by your side during this sacred moment. Whether it’s family, friends, or the loving presence of your case manager, know that your support system is here to embrace you with love and comfort.
Post-Delivery Contact: Your desires matter. Let’s discuss the level of contact you wish to have with your precious little one and the adoptive family during and after delivery. Your wishes will guide us as we create a nurturing environment filled with love and understanding.
What Happens After Birth?
Postpartum Care: Your comfort and well-being are paramount. Let’s explore your preferences for postpartum care, ensuring that every moment is filled with tenderness and support tailored to your needs.
Hospital Stay: Whether you desire rooming-in with your baby or moments of solitude, know that your wishes will be honored. Our goal is to create a nurturing environment where you feel cherished and supported every step of the way.
Relinquishment
Feel free to ask your case manager about the relinquishment process. It is important to note that the process of relinquishment can vary significantly depending on your location and the policies of the state involved. Some states allow birth mothers to sign relinquishment papers a day or two after birth. This can occur before being discharged from the hospital. In these cases, you will probably sign papers somewhere near the hospital. Other states require birth mothers to wait longer. In these cases, we make sure there is a comfortable, convenient location for signing.
We’ll make sure to discuss all the specifics with you before the placement happens. Understanding all your options can really help ease some of the uncertainty you might be feeling about the process. When you have a clear picture of what’s ahead, it can make it easier to get yourself emotionally ready.
How Will You Feel?
Undoubtedly, signing those papers is emotional, and you are sure to feel a roller coaster of emotions. As much as you try to prepare for this moment, it’s one of those moments that is hard to prepare for, but there are a few things to keep in mind.
Expect Emotions: Be gentle on yourself as you experience these emotions. Know this is going to be an emotional time.
Find Support: Have supportive people who love you surrounding you. While others may not be able to actually be present when you sign the papers, have them there waiting. You will need supportive people around you during this time.
Bond Your Way: You may wish to spend some one on one time with your baby directly before or after signing those papers so you can have some private time to say “see you later.”
We Are Here to Support You
Flexibility and Support
Your journey is unique, and your needs may change along the way. Embrace the fluidity of this experience, knowing that we are here to provide unwavering support and understanding, no matter what lies ahead.
Continuous Communication
Keep the lines of communication open. Share your thoughts, feelings, and concerns, and together, we’ll navigate this journey with grace and compassion.
Advocacy
Your voice matters. Allow us to advocate for your needs and desires with the hospital staff and the adoptive family. Together, we’ll ensure that your journey is filled with love, respect, and unwavering support.